Ok not really sure how to start this one. I have a lot on my mind and I know every woman has felt this way before. I'm gonna just jump right into it.....
Dating theses days is so hard. When do you know you've met the right person? I think know the answer to this question but as I get older it seems to get more and more complicated. Like my expectations are to high. Is that possible?? Am I being to picky? Is there really that "soulmate" out there. I believe their is. But is there only one ? If it didn't work out was that really your soulmate? I have truly loved one person in my life whom I believe was my "soulmate." It ended and my life took an unexpected turn for the best looking back now. I would never give up what changed my life. She is my "miracle." Recently I've looked back and wondered if he "was the one." And since dating is so hard to do these days whether it be I'm meeting the wrong people, don't trust enough or because I have someone else to think about since the next person will be a big part in her life and I want to make sure it's the right person. I know this blog is all over the place. But if you know me you will have no problem understanding what I am trying to say. Some people might be surprised reading this because coming from me they tend to think its easy for me to get dates ie: looks or personality or being outgoing. To those who think that let it be known dating is just as hard for me as it is for you. With all that being said, with out settling will the right one come along? Will I miss him? Have I missed him? Is there such thing as fate? Or am I being a dreamer?
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hahahaha....ok the ONLY reason Im laughing is cause I so feel your pain. Actually I think you climbed in my head and have since taken the words right out of my mouth. The only difference is I have no one else (other than my cats) to be concerned about. I wonder the same thing, and I'll be honest I cant give u an answer. People keep telling me 'yours is out there' or hope is the best thing...and good things come to those that wait. But I cant be sure there is just one soulmate.....and if you've found him, I honestly think that if it doesnt work out, that doesnt mean squat. It just means it didnt work out - doesnt mean he wasnt right for you, doesnt mean u love him any less. I believe that someone can be right for you, just not right now....and if now has passed, then not right ever (unless the opportunty arises again).
I semi believe in fate....and I do believe we will all settle, its not that your expectations are too high, its that the idea of someone being 'perfect' and exactly what we want is unrealistic.
You are not crazy and believe it or not we have all pondered this same question. Why don't we have "the one" and how do I know if I do have him. There is no right answer and there is not magic formula to get him to you either. But I agree with Beth, it is possible to be more than one, but there will be only one who comes along at the right time. Right time being you know he has faults, you recognize your own and through that you understand life is better with them than without.
I'm no expert - only took the plunge a few months ago. But I will say this one last thing. As good as friends are and we always cherish their advice, only we can determine who is right and wrong for us. Because who might be right for me isn't right for you and vice versa. Hope this makes sense.
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